The below is taken from an article/blog on Early to Rise. Craig at ETR wrote it.
I started to quote parts of it but instead thought I would share most of it with you.
FYI, hope it helps.
Step 1: Identify it.
Spend some time thinking about the chasm between where you are and where you should be.
- What’s been holding you back?
- Why is it taking longer than you planned?
- What challenges are proving difficult?
- Who or what has gotten in your way?
- What are you really getting annoyed with in your current situation?
- Do you have any toxic people or things in your life that need to go?
Are you starting to get mad?! Good.
When you get frustrated with yourself and where you are right now, that’s the starting point. Identify exactly what you’re fed up with and what current connections you may need to break.
Step 2: Write it.
There’s serious power in the sheer act of writing something down. More than writing down your goals (which I also advocate), this is making a bold declaration and making it official!
Here’s a suggestion. If you want to have some fun with this, read the first two sentences and the last paragraph of the Declaration of Independence. You’ll get an idea of what I’m talking about.
Mine starts out, “When in the course of my copywriting career, it becomes necessary to dissolve the unprofitable connections and habits I have developed, and to assume among the powers of the earth, my rightful place alongside rising copywriting greats like … ”
Craft some cool language that fits you. No one else has to ever see this, so don’t worry about how it sounds.
Step 3: Frame it!
I’m serious. And put it in a place where you can see it from your desk. We’re talking about a document that’s going to help change the course of your career, right? Make it count!
I did this three years ago when I declared that my loyalty to King George III (my employer) would be ending soon. Somehow stating it and posting it made it real.
Step 4: Use it.
Let your bold declaration, whatever it is, change you.
First, you identify it. Then you write it out. Then you post it.
Now stake your claim on the new territory and move in.
Think of your Declaration of Independence as a starting point, a launching pad, not a goal to be achieved.
Let it be a daily reminder that you got to a point where you had to change course.
I can tell you this. When you’ve formally made a declaration, even just to yourself, things naturally start falling into place.
Then, in the words of Thomas Jefferson: ACT